My husband does not physically force me to have sex; he pressures and badgers or guilts me until I give in either to avoid the fighting, or because I feel bad saying no to him knowing that it very important to him.
I have tried and tried to explain my feelings to him, but he "doesn't get it" or he is not in a place where he is ready/willing to be understanding, or maybe he is just insistent that he have things his way, I don't know. It is a huge frustration for me that I can not explain myself in a way that makes sense to him.
