Hey NCU,

How are doing? I am reading up on your sitch and I hope are beginning to detach as all suggest. My sitch as you can gather has changed quite a bit. In fact my W emailed me Monday night wanting to pursue the D. I agreed about and hour or two later then sought advice here.

I met with a lawyer yesterday and one on Thursday and told my W that I gave them the pre-nup so that they can draw up papers. She then emailed me and asked if Mediation or getting her own L is the best avenue for her to take. I cannot believe that she is still asking for my advice when she wants to D me. So I am contacting mediation L to see which is the best avenue to take.

I guess that I am detached enough because I have been sleeping like a baby since Monday. So all I can say is detach detach detach!!!!!