Sol... freaks me out when I hear you talk about ending things. Please please don't that! Don't let him win. Don't let him have that kind of power over you. Divorce will not be the end of the world. Emotions are temporary. Remember? Look back on what you've been through already. You've had good days, sad days, pissy days... it's constantly changing. You are great! You are beautiful! Everyone on this forum wants you to survive this and I'm sure your family and friends do too. You don't need him at all. You have so many other people in your life worth being here for! Remember that always and don't let him have any more power over how you will live your life. Happiness is a choice. You may have to choose it several times a day but YOU CAN DO IT!!
When you are happy as an individual, you are in a better position to determine whether a partner enhances your happy life or weighs it down.
