My walk away wife story

[40andsadintexas]

Yesterday after I left the lawyers office I thought I was going to hyperventilate, things are happening pretty fast now. I guess I’ve known this day would come, but its scary thinking about it. Its all out of my hands, I have lots of proof of my wife’s extra curricular activities, my kids want to be with me, my lawyer says we are in as good shape as any man can be so I guess its time to put it in the hands of God and hope for the best.
I really think that saving a marriage is an honorable undertaking. I hope everyone here has a better outcome then I do in regard to busting the divorce. The day she dropped the bomb she never looked back I don’t think I made too many bad decisions in trying to stop this it just wasn’t mint to be.
Unless something happens a trial by jury on 10-14-2010 will decide the fate of our failed marriage, the D should be final soon after that. My lawyer told me we needed a jury trial because jurors have emotions, judges have seen it all before they are pretty jaded.
Next week will probably end up being one of the most important weeks of my life. I should meet with the child advocate, I get to meet her before the stbex, my lawyer said that gives me the chance to make the first impression.
Somehow today I feel relief knowing the end is near, tomorrow I will be scared, but that’s ok I will cross that bridge when I get there.