I've tried that. he refuses. once he said he was going to schedule a month in advance, but he never did. he basically, by default, this is what we always end up doing.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
