just got this:
"I work until 4:30."

he usually does; sometimes he has meetings or whatever, tho. but this is gonna end. if he chooses not to communicate, we will not be here when he comes to pick her up. I don't know why this is suddenly an issue for him. and honestly, if D was okay with arranging her own schedule, she might be old enough to do it--she'd confer with me. but the issue is that she isn't okay with it, and feels pressured and stuck in the middle. she's been clear about that, I've been clear about that, and he still chooses to persist. Just to have control and make the point that he has contempt for me.

what a bully.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012