You need to wise up and get with a lawyer before the MC. Protect yourself first, then you can DB on the marriage. You have a very small window that maybe closed, but DO IT. What are you waiting for??
This is the advice I was given. If I had a time machine, I would have gone back and smacked myself for not getting a lawyer immediately. Wise up John!! I apologize for the directness.
I agree. When I read back on my initial posts here, everyone told me to go dark and see a L and I am an idiot for NOT HEEDING ADVICE I RECEIVED. GRR.
One year, a signed greencard, numerous manipulations, atty papers, wasted time, and a random club bl-w job girl later... I should have listened!
Though now I can at least laugh about it (even if just a little bit).
