Appeasement. There was this fellow named Neville Chamberlain that thought it would work. It did not.

You are doing this when you really need to have little mercy and take charge of the legal situation. Keep that big legal gun loaded and cocked. Be the exception to the rule. Don’t be the guy (because there are lots of them) that says later: "I wish I would have listened to Citygirl or Kerry but I didn't think she was like that" or "I really got fukced" or "I should have" blah blah blah.

Work with your lawyer to get this D done with. It has been going on far too long.