^ I hope you get your settlement soon. Why is it frozen?

Originally Posted By: M from Tennessee
All that's great..I can tell you this..which I heard once from a wiseman...who had lived, worked, supervised and listened to women all his life...he told me during my D..

"once they have lost that lovin' feelin, they are gone, gone, gone"

and that's the truth..


ITA. Once someone wants out... it's Goodbye and head for the EXIT sign. Trying to smother someone so they stay is NOT the answer, hence "letting go."

I once read something similar..."Once someone gets a little escape velocity going, ain't no play in the world that will keep them from leaving."

So. Damn. True.

Originally Posted By: CityGirl
The odd thing is once all that settles down and the case is "done" it's amazing how things shift. 36 months later my H is now telling me he does not want me to file for the divorce (we are legally separated and I can file in about 8 weeks). He has take a job that will have him traveling 90% of the time (guess things aren't going so good with OW living in his house, lol!) and he wants us to talk about "our" problems and date.


Seriously, CG. We need to make a book called The WAS' of DB and on every page have a different ex on it along w/ their bio.