I hear you guys and those of you that know me this is so not me despite her behavior so I'm having a tough time telling her to screw off. The thing is though it's not that large a sum and she could borrow it from her friend etc then really get nasty with me when the time comes for the final settlement. Things have been calm/amicable lately and there's nothing worse than pissing a woman off who feels you've done her wrong...so that's my worry. On the other hand I could say to her "against my L's wishes I've decided to help you with the money but in return I need the settlement offer signed and the D finalized".
Not being hard-headed here but I really am wondering this will blow any chance I might have of her accepting the final settlement offer.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
