That's why you do it 1) slowly and 2) with no expectations. You don't have to lay your whole soul bare in one conversation. And you shouldn't, that would be overwhelming for both of you.

But you have to do something to make things change.

“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.” Dr. Seuss

Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
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