So I started talking to H about one of our son's classes and some things that were said yesterday. Nothing bad, just clearing up something that S had gotten wrong the day before. Well H immediately starts with the "I'm sure I did something wrong!" bit. I said one time that I never said anything of the sort and said nothing else.
Now I'm pretty sure H is upset about it but I don't want to assume anything. I also don't want to ask because our past history, conversations on parenting don't EVER go well. So he goes upstairs and slams the door.
I want so bad to go say something but I don't want it to seem confrontational but I am upset that he's slamming doors now that our kids are upset. I'm just a bundle of nerves and this is the way I feel most of the time. Scared that my saying something will start an argument, but upset that he's being so inconsiderate.
How do I diffuse the situation without it escalating into something more?
Seems simple, but it's the simple things that grow to be big problems.
Doodi
"I feel like Rocky in the fifteenth round, beaten beyond recognition, when I realize, the only person I've been fighting for is...myself."
