The last few years mine didn't bring much to the table, its funny but I thought we were growing closer, we were having S, we laid in bed and talked every night. Looking back its clear that we were not connecting like we once did.
I miss my stbex that I met and married, not the cheater who filed for D
Exactly. It became a norm without realizing that it wasn't right. Then they drop the bomb and we can't figure out what was wrong.
It's the slow deterioration that goes unnoticed. My previous rice/steak comment was about that, except I was going to list all the wonderful and positive things about my W in the past prior to the bomb only to realize that I did not want to "lie" about the "truly" wonderful person she is.
