I have to say I agree with KK and CG. I know you, and you are very much like me. But that has to end. No more Mr. Nice Guy. You KNOW she would not help you if the tables were turned. You need to turn that part of you off that usually is triggered to "help". She's put herself in this sitch, she's a big girl, and she has $2K/month from you from which she could pull this money. If you need strength, re-read her past 5 emails to you. Do not rescue her, do not give her this $- you will never see it again. Tell her you'll keep DD until she has a suitable residence set up and if she wants the $, sign the frickin agreement. Period.
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
