No talking, no negotiating... nothing. She has two choices (A) deal with it on her own - OR - (B) negotiate a full settlement by the close of business tomorrow that is final. If she chooses not to take the settlement then too bad, too sad. Just let her know you will be keeping your daughter until she has a place to live that is suitable.
You have been screwed at every turn. DO NOT LET THIS opportunity pass you by. Let her cry, yell or tattle to her attny. You are under NO obligation to provide her with any funds outside of the temporary support order.
Your W has lost any "good faith" by the numerous stunts she has pulled. Use her desperation to get settlement done.
