I don't think any of us deserve to be judged solely on our worst behavior
Isn't that what you are doing? Judging DSH because he can't think of any positives at the moment? I provided the rough details of his sit so that you could be more empathetic to his particular situation if you chose to do so.
Alas....
Geez, TH. I wasn't judging him at all. That's a bit of a stretch even for you.
DSH, if you thought I was judging you, I apologize.