Also TH, you make a good point. I was not abusive, did not cheat did not do anything extreme to enrage her. I have been mostly cooperative, cordial, not defensive and not offensive. So what drives a person to treat me this horrible? Is she getting angry that I have not been completely devasted by her decision, so she goes even more into "Im gonna show him" mode?
DS
I don't know that she is a good person or a bad person. You are in a much better position to decide that than I am. I do know that women are effected by hormones in a way that we are not. (See John Grey's book re how men and women handle stress.) They also react and are sensitive to fear and isolation in a way we are not. (See the Fear/Shame Dynamic). Something put her into a Me vs Him mode and I don't know what it is. It could be something beyond her control, or it could be how she treats everyone. Maybe she is just of weak character. Maybe she is drowning. I wish I could tell you. I just don't know.
