I've shared financial information and child custody plans. It got her attention pretty quick and caused her to pause. Last Sunday, she asked me if I had a target move out date in mind, I said three weeks, she panicked. I told her I expect some sort of decision within the next week or two.
All I'd like to add is: set a date. You will provide full transparency on XXXday, September XX or you will carry your stuff inside from off of the lawn every day that you live here.
(In my state you can't make them leave, but you can store their stuff in moving boxes on the lawn and put it out there every day.)
