Okay, but there must have been aspects of her personality that lit you up. They may not be quantifiable, but they are why you fell in love.
In terms of what the WA brings to the relationship, that can be part of the problem. The things that lit you up are no longer doing that,
DSH? It could be that his wife is executing a plan that involves taking his kids away, not letting him see them much at all, and divorcing him.
Kind of hard for that stuff to light you up
I have yet to hear, "the way to a mans heart is to take his children, keep him from seeing them much, and divorce him". Must be a reason that isn't a plattitude
Well, she's still trying to light him up. It's just in a different way.
But seriously, do we evaluate our relationship based on the negatives or do we include the positives, too? That's how WAS make the case against the marriage. They focus on the negatives and minimize or deny the positive. Of course, in this case, the negatives may certainly outweigh the positives, it's just not a fair evaluation unless you consider the pluses, too.
