dsh4320,

I am sure if I can adequately tell you w/o bias of the last 10 weekds seething in. My W did not cook, she was a student, therefore, she really did not contribute financially to the M. However, she was always there for me. When I did not get that last promotion she held me so tight that I could barely breathe. The way she looked at me with tears in her eyes I could tell that she was the one person that I could count on to be there for me when the going got tough.

However, this last 2.5 months where she has not communicated with me has hurt me more than I could have ever express. Who knows her reasoning behind her going dark for so long. I have done a lot of reflecting these last few months and I am not angry at her because she left. He!! I would have left months earlier if I were in her shoes. But now she's gone and it appears that we are headed down the path of D.