I'm pretty sure there is no OM involved, in fact I'm positve so that's not an issue.
The problem is me, I have made mistakes and I accept that, but I just want to put things right, maybe I have been too keen to put the wrongs right but who wouldn't.
I am still in the marital bed, she is in another room, and I am not chasing after her, I have backed off her totally, focused on me and the kids and all seemed ok, then I f**ked up last night, we had not spoke about "us" since last Monday, but obviously it came out again after she found out what I had done.
She is hurt, I know that, I just want to help her, but that's something I cannot do, I just need to think about me and the kids, but it's not easy!!!
I'm just quoting that now so that when you circle back to this a few months from now because you've been doing what you FEEL like doing instead of following the advice given to you, you will know that you were warned previously about this.
How many threads on this forum have posters who say those same words only to find out something different later on....
