What do I do is she has no interest in making it work?
Then you decide what YOU want. How you want to live. If you want to keep beating a dead horse, hanging onto someone who doesn't want to be held.
I hear the desperation in your post. It's normal to feel that way. All you can do is tell you want to be make it work and will do anything to make it work. If she doesn't want to, then that is her choice and you have to accept that.
