As long as the EAs are still occuring, you are facing an uphill battle. SHe doesn't want to share passwords/etc with you because she is cheating. It's the simple.
Do not leave your home. If she wants out, she can leave.
Very clearly state to her that if she is involved with other people, it's not going to work between you to. No if, ands, or buts about it, If she wants out, again, she can leave.
I agree and have made it clear that if she stays transparency will be required. I've also made it clear that I have no intention of moving out and that she will have to leave. And last, I told her an M consists of two people not three. Break the promise of being involved with others and I'll pack your bags for you.
Me-43 W-41 S-3 M- almost 7 W ONS affair - 8/9/10, confronted 8/30/10 Separation - Pending My sitch
