Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive



During that time she stayed with her "friend" but came home after work, did the kids thing with dinner and bed, then left to goto her frinds place for the night.





gr8 - I was wondering if you might share with me how the above situation worked out. My husband moved out 3 weeks ago - OW is his first ex-wife. Right now, based upon his request, I am allowing my husband to come to the house before the kids wake up (they are 4yo) and come home after work. We sit down as a "family" and have dinner and then we put the kids to sleep. H then leaves. He is not living with OW and I don't know the frequency in which they have contact, but I know he spends time with her. It breaks my heart every time I see him leave. I'm not sure how much longer I can handle this arrangement. I see some benefit for the kids but they definitely know daddy is not around like usual. Any insight you can provide would be so appreciated.


M9+ T 11+
Me42 H44
2 kids under 5
IlYBNILWY -3/10
A discovered late 8/10
H moved out early 9/10 - back two weeks later
"Taking a Break" - H moves out 1/2/10