WAW left on Independence Day and not communicating

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I think it will be an eye opening experience if she get served papers so I might just pull the lever on Thursday.

Maybe coach will chime in?

If you go this route, do it because you don't want to be married to somebody who wants to divorce you, isn't living with you, and isn't willing to work on your marriage.

Don't do it to teach her anything. You aren't her teacher. She's an adult. I hear a little superiority creeping in (and that's normal--happens all of the time). She's an adult, her feelings are important, and she is letting you lead for now on how the divorce is going to proceed.

You could also tell her that you think she should be the one to file.

Choices.

If she files, her attorney schedules the hearing, any delays, etc.

If you file, then you and your attorney control these things, but who knows what happens?

She could go dark again in either case.

If you file, then she gets to chose whether or not to seek legal representation.

Your call, Buddy.