I learned recently that it's definitely NOT in the best interest of my M to talk about our sitch outside of our MC sessions. We have not yet learned the proper tools to communicate with each other and the boundaries are still blurry. The MC is the neutral third party that can throw up that 'stop' sign when he sees us heading down the wrong path. When it's just H and I trying to talk about M alone, it never fails that we always end up going to far and things are said/feelings hurt. It's just risky.
You know what they say...
The Pathway to Hell is paved with good intentions.
Doodi
"I feel like Rocky in the fifteenth round, beaten beyond recognition, when I realize, the only person I've been fighting for is...myself."
