Going to the gym is the best thing you've done. It's all about you and for you.
I wouldn't trust her not for one sec. You are getting sucked in to these sweet nothings no matter what you post. With all the bitter hateful things she has said to you in the not so distant past how can you let a few nice words get to you. They don't mean crap. What she says something hateful then something nice so they cancel each other out. Your still left no closer to anything positive. Right now you should be sitting back waiting for her to prove herself that she is worthy of you.
She's after the money. That's why she's nice. Plain and simple.
Doodi
"I feel like Rocky in the fifteenth round, beaten beyond recognition, when I realize, the only person I've been fighting for is...myself."