Now that you're a trailblazer go all the way and tell her that you just feel that the two of you don't communicate, she just doesn't listen to you...I'm sure you, like all other guys, have heard that one before yourself. Use what you got! I think it must be a lot of pressure to date someone who has plans for you that you don't share and can only say in response "you'll change one day" Ooh, scary! Hey, maybe it's time for that old DB favourite "ILYBINILWY"... but then she'd probably say "that's OK because one day you will" Good luck to ya!