I've been getting along pretty well with my ex too. She stopped over unexpectedly last night and we talked for a while.
They do peak out, Trapt, don't they.
Yeah, I don't know what it is/was. It's a good feeling to no longer really wonder any more. Not to sound insensitive, but it doesn't really matter at this point. Life is pretty darn good.
I do see that her anger is gone. She looks and acts much like her old self in many ways, and she is much more involved and caring when it come to the kids. I am really happy about that last one. The selfishness still very much exhists, however you can state your point or boundary when it comes to that and usually she will listen to and respect it.
It takes a lot of time though.
All I can say is keep going Eric. You are going to have those moments, but you'll will make it out of this and be so much better for it regardless of what happens...and ANYTHING can happen.
Just keep going man and remain open to any and every possibility that may come your way.
