She changed her phone number and moved to another town so I do not know her address so email has been my only communication tool. For 10 weeks I have been emailing, not pursuing with R,M,D.
I sent her a b-day email last Friday and she responded on Monday with a "Thank you." On Monday evening she sent me an email telling me that she wanted to start the D process. I responded back an hour or two later and said, "Okay, I agree. I want you to be happy and I deserve to be with someone who wants to be with me." She asked me twice if I was okay with that.
The next morning I emailed her and suggested that we use a Mediator. Then from the Coach's 2x4 he told me that I needed to lead "show confidence, courage, etc." And so I sent her an email telling her that I met with my L gave him the pre-nup and he will draw up papers then I asked who is her lawyer.
Then she emailed me last night asking me if we should use a Mediator or should she get her own L. So that is where I am at this point.
