Bobby, like Albuquerque, I have been wondering for some time why you were refusing contact with your W's family. Is it possible that they want to offer support to you, as my MIL has done from day one, or even apologize for not acting earlier? If there's any possibility of that, I'd like to encourage you to look past your anger and give them a chance. Your children will want to maintain a relationship with their grandparents and the rest of W's family, and your refusal to speak with them will only make that harder. If, indeed, the contact proves to be painful or harmful to you, you can always change you mind.
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
