I told her in a couple of emails, "That as much as I wanted the M to work, that she was right and that it will not" an affirmation of her feelings. Then listening to another relationship guru who told me that I should not have told her that I was letting her go so I wrote her another email and told her "That I was frustrated when I told her that I was letting her go and I really want us to work and I really want to figure out how to do that and I realize that she may not be there, but that was how I was feeling." Both of these emails were sent about two weks apart and the last sent about four weeks ago. I did not specifically tell her that I wanted to work on the M, but I think she knows how i feel.
So all of my emails prior to her stating that she wanted a D have been positive. I was being careful with my emails and trying not to push R, M or D. Now that she mentioned D I am pushing and showing confidence by leading the charge. But I leading in a race that I do not want to lead in.
