Hey Eric,

Great job with the way you handle everything! As far as the house goes, I think most people stress the "do not leave" thing early on when there are children involved because that can have a negative effect as far as custody goes.

At this point,(being in negotiations) there is nothing wrong with you not wanting to live there. I totally understand the feeling of wanting to start new.


Originally Posted By: KerryK
I hope things go as well for you as they have for me. My XW was at my home the last 2 days having me fix her photography software. While I was focused on that, she helped keep the kids in line. We are both on the same page about the kids. It seems like foreever since we ever had any talks about our marriage. I know that she regretted her choice, but she is probably happy now - I dont ask about that.


Patience and time work wonders. I've been getting along pretty well with my ex too. She stopped over unexpectedly last night and we talked for a while.

Keep going Eric, things do become so much better no matter what the outcome is.



Don't stand still.