Thanks! Nothing needs mediated because I was too good with the pre-nup when it was originated. In fact the L said we could easily file ourselves and be D before the ink dried.
I want to save the M, but of course I want my W to want it as well. Because of the communication walls that she put up I never had a chance to show that I am willing and have made changes. That is why I was driving myself crazy with wording my emails.
Before my W left she told me that I knew that she was looking for an apartment, but I never made the changes that she needed to see to keep her there and work on the M. I have made many changes and I still have many things to do as well. However, at this stage she will never see them.
My W always relied on me to make the decisions I guess she is waiting for me to help her make this one!
