WAW left on Independence Day and not communicating

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One more thing here while we await other responses:

Don't be afraid of divorce. You can always delay getting it placed on the docket, then you can get it extended (up to 6 months in my state), and then if you divorce anyway, and it doesn't work out, you can always re-marry

What does HIH really want? Do you want somebody who doesn't want you? I, personally, am leaning toward retain a L and then file, she hires her own L, and then see what happens. That's me though. I wouldn't be happy with waiting around for her to figure out what she is going to do.

Mediation is another possibility. What do you need mediated?