I am not happy about the sitch that I am in. I joked because I receieved more emails in 2 days than I had in 1o weeks. I took the approach that Coach recommended to show confidence by leading in this sitch. I spoke with a couple of L yesterday and they told me that I set myself up pretty well with the pre-nup so that she cannot take advantage of me financially and tha D would move pretty fast through the system. I scheduled an appointment with a L on Thursday.
I took verbatum what the Coach recommended that I say. I'm showing confidence to my W by leading in this sitch. MY W is sitting back spinning her wheels wanting me (as usual) to tell her what to do "should I get a L or we get a Mediator, which is better?" She has only spoken with a L....that all so far!
Therefore, I'm asking for advice. Do I hire my own L? What are the advantages and disadvantages or do I work with my W using a Mediator? She can see the "old" me 60 pounds lighter, weight training and confident! Or we can go mano on mano with L?
I thought I would email her today and tell her that I will contact my L and put things on hold until I have time to contact a Mediator to find out the advantages. I must show confidence by taking the lead. But I am leading to a place that I don't want to go to!
