My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[awest1217]

Go have fun with your friend. Don't worry about H. Try to just live your life. It doesn't mean you need to go out all the time, but live your life with your dog the best you can and don't worry about H. It is hard to go without talking to him, but it is for the best. He needs time to think and time to figure out himself and his problems. He needs to fix his own life before he can be a good H.

Give him the space to just get help on his own. He talked about going to a doctor, maybe he will now that he is out? Who knows? You just continue to do what is best for you and don't try to influence H in anyway.