I think I did ok. He texted me saying he wanted to take the girls to dinner (at 4?) and he would like me to go. I have class. The normal me probably would have missed one class for his birthday dinner. I came so close to saying yes.
But I did not. For two reasons: because it would not be GAL or 180 of me, and because if he REALLY wanted me to go, he would postpone his 'other plans' by a few hours (I get out at 630) and went to a later dinner. He obviously did not want to do that. So as much as it hurt and felt wrong and I felt bad, I turned the invite down. He will still take the girls to dinner for his birthday while I am in class. And i won't spend any time with him on his birthday. That is so hard for me. His birthday has always been very special to me.
Me 30 H 29 DC 9, 7, 2 M 4 years, T 6 years ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10 He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too Physically separating end of September
