Just read over all of happy_again / finally_frees posts, and its helped me TREMENDOUSLY. Seeing it from their perspective and what they go through helps understand whats going on in their heads, and thats the part I battle with.
It really isnt something they are very much in control of, although it may seem that way - thats what hurts us, but when we see that they can't control it, we arent so defensive, and rather more accommodating and forgiving than we would have been.
Feeling a WHOLE lot better. I wish there were more post MLC people who would share so generously as he did, it reeeaaly helped....
