Feel quite good this week. Had a bit of an empowering, self-confidence incident this week while driving. Nothing external happened but I was simply overcome by an "I'm gonna be absolutely fine; in fact, better than ever" moment. I'm runninig with it.
A friend accidentally saw W today and followed her "home" to her new address. Not in "Community X" as W had said two weeeks ago. He found OM's car there, too. They have simply found another enabler. HER friend this time- the one getting divorced by HER husband; the one that called me with "friendly advice to calm down and not act rashly" when I exposed the A.
At least it's a house rather than co-op housing. Bigger with less people. And two little kids for D2 to play with.
Regarding procrastination:
Waiting to hear back on a referral from the mediating L to a familiar "associate" for my personal use. I'm going to get all my questions about Separation Agreement answered and likley have "MY version" drawn up.
My taxes are being done tomorrow. No word on whether hers are done. I'll follow up with her when mine are.
Bank still working on increasing PLC to cut my CC interest costs.
I sent W a text to let her know I was sending her an email with the new "household bills" amount now that I've redone the mortgage. I told her that the truck should be next as it will cut her share even futher (no need to say I'm even further ahead).
Lo and behold, she has an appointment Saturday to work a deal. She gave all kinds of reasons why my suggestion wouldn't work so I said "I understand, I agree. Good decision"
I'm staying out of the deal and told her to let me know when I need to sign over my half of the truck. If my "half"of the upside down exceeds my deal, I'll tube this one. Or participate as far as the other would require.
So we may be out of the truck a month earlier than I had planned.
This will also take her off my insurance and I'll take my personalized plate back. ("CD 1")
Again, though she is "doing something on her own", it is obviously in self-interest as the fuel costs are crippling. I wouldn't call it 'pursuing the D'.
Given that the affair is continuing unabated (and somewhat unashamedly) I believe I may ask my L about several different ideas I have on the Sep Agreement.
And that will be the final step.
Just a question of who pushes "the button"
Whatever happens, I will "win" the Great Race.
Unfortunately, the one to lose the most is only 2.5 years old.
