I agree with Citygirl. If I remember correctly, in the past when you have "dictated" conditions, your stbxw kind of complied. Is this right?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004