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You are absolutely correct. It is better looking backwards at the stages after they are complete. But in MLC sometimes that is no guarantee, I agree.

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Enjoy your kids and grandkids and focus on this new stage in YOUR life!

BINGO.

So Punkin...how about not worrying about what HE is doing anymore. Give yourself a break and stop looking for a "clue" - stop wondering what if. And starting laying out who Punkin in outside of the M, Who Punkin wants to be and HOW Punkin will get to where she needs to get to.

It ain't easy...the ride will be bumpy...BUT what you gain, what you learn, is ALL YOURS.

Oh...need the address to send the pie smile

Eric


"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
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That is some funny sh*t. "I'm an a**hole stage". I think I'll have him a T shirt made with that one it.

Wait Let's make it a group project. Picture it -

MLC -
Stage #7
Be the a**hole.

We could sell T's to earn money for Little Friday.

Honestly, 8 years ago when my H has his first bout with MLC, I had a T shirt made that said "It's not my fault" in bright red letters on a white T with red sleeves. The letters were upside down on his chest so he could look down and read them. When I packed up his crap this time, I sent the shirt.

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I had a T shirt made that said "It's not my fault" in bright red letters on a white T with red sleeves. The letters were upside down on his chest so he could look down and read them. When I packed up his crap this time, I sent the shirt.

LMAO!!!

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Saw this on a link given to me on my facebook ... thought of you and the many service spouses being dumped.

http://www.military.com/opinion/0,15202,219983,00.html?ref=nf

Take care.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
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Being,

That is so funny. I get Military.com sent to my email and I had just read that one myself. Printed the email and phone # to call.

Thanks for thinking of me. ((Hugs))

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Happy Wednesday!!!Hump day in my neck of the woods. I had an intersting offer from my male friend to ease my headache. He offered to come over, heat up some baby oil, and give me a back rub from the top of my neck to the top of my . . . . I thanked him very kindly, but told him just because we've known each other since we were eleven didn't mean I was ready for him to play with my a**. He is persistent, I'll give him that.

No news from the Twilight Zone. Taxes are due on the 10th of October and I have to make a decision about whether or not to approach him about paying half. I've been three weeks dark with him since his drunken "Can I come home . . " msg.

I'm working up my courage to get back on Facebook, but I have to think up a good alias and open a new E-addie. That way, I could still talk with my family safely.

Keep your heads above water everyone!

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I'm working up my courage to get back on Facebook, but I have to think up a good alias and open a new E-addie. That way, I could still talk with my family safely.
Lots of us have more than one e-mail address. And many people here have more than one FB account. I would suggest that you keep it all seperate for your peace of mind.

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I had an intersting offer from my male friend to ease my headache. He offered to come over, heat up some baby oil, and give me a back rub from the top of my neck to the top of my . . . .

Punkin – Grit has a headache so he just may be interested….LMAO….(Grit – dude I had too…just had too)

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I have to make a decision about whether or not to approach him about paying half.

My rule of thumb on financial matters is this….do you really need the money? If so, then yes I would ask BUT expect nothing but grief and aggravation. Now if you don’t need the money then I say f*ck him. Why DO YOU need to rely on him? Is that who YOU want to be? I bet not. Some may argue that you are giving him a free pass – me – I say you are showing him that you are strong women and do NOT need his a**. Just my opinion.

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I'm working up my courage to get back on Facebook,

You can find me on the alt…if you do sign up…you get the pleasure of seeing pictures of my wonderful kids and FTR…that worth the price of admission. LOL

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Keep your heads above water everyone!

Not just above water…I say FLY….I say swim….I say go across the ocean. The world is OURS to take. It is OUR life. So…Punkin…who’s life is this? Who make YOUR decisions for YOU? I bet ya know the answer.

Oh…and before I forget..if ya do get the T-shirts made…I’ll buy one.

As Brooklyn would say…keep steppin…..keep steppin…

God Bless,
Eric


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I'm working up my courage to get back on Facebook,

You can find me on the alt…if you do sign up…you get the pleasure of seeing pictures of my wonderful kids and FTR…that worth the price of admission. LOL
I don't know about seeing eric and his tutu but his D8 is very cute!
I will vouch for that! smile smile smile

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