You can't have everything, where would you put it?

[ClingingToHope]

So by the responses here, a couple of missed assignments and I should call STBXW outraged.

This is what I want to do for the next 10 years? Every time a missing assignment comes home, I should read her the riot act?

Boy, that sounds like good advice.

Awest, your kid is what 3? If he gets a C in second grade and your ex calls you with concerns, how do you think you would handle it?

I am not going to fly off the handle over the first few weeks of school.

I don't want STBXW looking over my shoulder on my nights and weekends and I'm not going to be looking over hers for every little thing to play "gotcha."

We specifically hired the sitter with the No. 1 assignment of making them get their homework done. The issue here is that D8 is new to it. She's never had homework.