Imagine you are married to somebody, and you desperately want to feel love for them, but instead all you feel is resentment, anger, sadness and lonliness when you are with them. After a while, you give up, and all that is left is the resentment, anger, guilt for leaving (etc), and sadness.
Everytime you look at your marriage, you are looking back at every negative thing and re-living all of those negative experiences. You just want to feel alive, to enjoy life, to have hope for the future again, but ....
Not saying this is it exactly. But you get the point.
Nothing you do to argue about that, no self-righteous indignation, no begging or pleading, no angry tirade, no supplicating, and no amount of jealousy is going to change that.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 09/14/1009:37 PM.
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