@Thinker>>"It's true to her pattern and her character, but she has completely rewritten our past to suit her own view of herself."
Leaving the mediator's office last week (practicing C for 35 yrs), I commented on all the distortions & rewriting of history in my H's declaration. His response;
"Yeah, we have a saying in this business, "If we believed everything written by both sides, all children would be in foster care."
Apparently they've heard it all & get pretty good at filling in a more accurate picture of events. (We hope so anyway!)