Thanks Snodderly for the advice. Another weird thing happened. He dropped the kids off in the driveway, got out and started wiping off his car for the next 15 minutes (in my driveway).
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11