Curiosity killed the cat. The man is curious to know what you are doing. He might be having a moment clarity....continue doing what you've been doing and do not allow him to draw you back into his drama. You've doing well w/o him in your space.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
