Stuckness....should be a new dictionary word. I get so tired of people telling me the stuckness is a sign of co-dependency. I am not co-dependant. I know I can live without him. I have and done quite well. There were not the financial concerns at that time. I know just excuses but important ones to someone who is closer to retirement than not.
I just have this nagging feeling, a little voice if you will, that keeps telling me to hold on? Wishful thinking perhaps>?
Stir the pot???? Huh,,,,,gotta think on that one. Maybe telling him again that this isnt working will somehow cause somesort of movement???