I am once again going to say I am with Drew and Kerry. You are a parent. The girls are almost half your responsibility (which is what you wanted and also why you have less child support payment) so you need to help at least half if that is going to be your logic, but really they are fully your girls as much as STBXW's and you should help with this situation. You are going to have to work together sometimes for the girls. IT SUCKS! and IT IS NOT YOUR CHOICE! but your girls are starting down a path that if not fixed now will hurt their educations for life. There won't be a reason to worry about money for college because they won't be going if this continues.

You may say "oh it is just a few missing assignments", but if they are taught now that they can get away with it, then down the road it gets worse...believe me I deal with those types of kids every day. You have to help teach your girls what is important. If education is something you value and want your girls to value then you have to teach them.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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