Thank you both!

K- I am really trying to just be friendly, but not friends. H doesn't know anything about my personal life outside of what I do with S. I only tell him what I do with S and that is it. It is such a fine line with S being so small, but I don't tell H everything and don't really talk to him much. It will be even less once the D is final and also now that S's b-day is over.

Lucky- There is no way around the class. No class from both of us means no getting D'd. The D will not be finalized until both of us have completed the class.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52
2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89